Humans have been writing love letters for centuries. In what seems like a lost tradition in time where everything is digitized, a letter is now appreciated as a sentiment or as something more heartfelt.
The act of hand-writing a letter to the one you love may offer another facet to express your feelings for the first time or remind your partner of how much you love and appreciate them. An alternative to a text message or email, a love letter is just the right romantic, “The Notebook” -esque way to convey your message with a fresh yet traditional feel.
Here is a step-by-step guide to help you write a love letter that your partner will adore.
Create outline or plan: Brainstorm your key points or ideas. Before you start writing, have a plan in mind. Think about questions like: What do you want to say? How do you want them to feel?
Find your materials: The stationery you choose sets the tone for your letter. Choose your pen and paper carefully as this may affect how your letter is perceived.
Greet them: Don’t feel the need to maintain formality. In order to reflect the nature of your relationship, that may mean starting with “Hey [insert name],” or you may write, “Dear [insert name].”
Say how you feel: The most important detail is that you honestly and freely express your feelings. While maintaining sincerity, tell your partner why you love them. Think about these questions: what makes them special? What do they mean to you? Feel free to use jokes or sayings that are unique to you and your partner.
Be specific: Make it personal. Write about specific memories during your time together. Recount a funny or romantic moment, your first date, and just anything that relates to your time as a couple.
Make them feel appreciated: give them thanks for whatever you see fit. Whether it be their love, support or companionship, let them know how grateful you are for them.
Plan for the future: Write about your plans for the future. In your love letter, tell them how you want to continue to love and support them. Tell them a little bit about your plan to spend more time together, or your commitment.
Sign off: When ending your love letter, close in a way that reflects your feelings. Take this opportunity for a personalized closing like “Love [insert name]”, or “Yours truly.” Lastly, sign your letter with your name. And, you can add your own personal touch like a kiss mark or sticker.
While writing a love letter can be significant for both you and your partner, expressing your love and appreciation through a hand-written letter will forever be a meaningful gesture.
